Both these will give you the first child node:
console.log(parentElement.firstChild); // or
console.log(parentElement.childNodes[0]);
If you need the first child that is an element node then use:
console.log(parentElement.children[0]);
var eElement; // some E DOM instance
var newFirstElement; //element which should be first in E
eElement.insertBefore(newFirstElement, eElement.firstChild);